Esther does a beautiful job of exploring erotic intelligence. Not to mention the interdependent opposite aspects of life. Noteworthy.

Scary like looking in a mirror, or peering through a crack in the neighbor’s doorway. Glad for the relationship I “have,” but thankful for the caution and insight on how to keep it sexy!

A must for literally everyone. Profound thinking. This book helped me reimagine my relationship with my husband after becoming a mom and gave me tools to better articulate my thoughts, feelings and emotions about my present state as well as the past circumstances that lead me to this place.

The examples of different couples and their approaches to eroticism was helpful.

Good book, interesting topics. Highly recommend to read. Thank you Easter Perel .

My wife and I (25yrs+ married) have been reading this book 2gether at night over several weeks now (little bits at a time). Initially it was not the most energizing read, but because it’d come so highly recommended we kept at it; thankfully we did cuz at a certain point, it just bcomes legit powerful. Our goal was just to read like 10 to 15 minutes or so at a time to unwind. But, as we got deeper into it our sessions kept goin’ longer and longer, sometimes a full chapter or two at a time. It connects and Esther’s examples…just hit. Especially the last few chapters; they’re def the payoff you’ve been promised from anyone who’s recommended this book. It is well worth the read. A new go-to recommendation for peeps interested in sexuality and relationships.

Whether you’re in a relationship or not this is an important book to read to understand not just sex and sexuality but people’s relationships with the unknown or erotic intelligence. I wish I’d read it sooner!

After reading it I am convinced it would have saved my marriage . How eye opening.. It should be a wedding gift - always

I thank God for Esther Perel. This book has legitimately revolutionized the way we view sex and relationships. It emphasizes albeit ever so subtly yet assertively that we must be whole and healed first. Most of the relationship issues we face stem not from other people or circumstances but from our own unhealed traumas and identity issues. Love this book!!!!!

After reading this book it opened up a lot of sore parts in my marriage. After following though with a few of the ideas and suggestions my wife has said she feels closer than ever, even though the truth from the book still makes me feel doubtful. My suggestion, read with some caution. It's a powerful and well referenced book with some ideas that you may or may not want to consider as a truths in your marriage.